Are you talking about card magic? or coin, or what? I'll assume you are talking about card magic.
There are plenty of easier effects to learn and basic moves, such as double lifts and simple colour changes that when used properly can create really impressive magic. There are more difficult moves, such as a pass or clipshift, where you shouldn't expect to be able to do them properly without months, if not years of practice. There is plenty of easier card magic out there. The book series Card College has an enormous amount of information, ranging from beginner to advanced.
If you want to learn how to control your spectators, you need to preform more. The more you preform the more you will learn how to make the spectators look where you want. Also, being extremely comfortable with the magic you preform is key to making a relaxed atmosphere. If you are nervous and are focused really hard on the handling of the cards, the spectators will be focused on the cards as well. It all comes down to practice and repetition.
For many card tricks, and magic in general, don't expect to master each new trick in a day, or even a week. Performing magic properly take thousands of hours of effort, it's not something that comes overnight.
Keep up the effort and you'll see improvements in no time!